This book forges a new way to speak about our unfinished business, presenting the voices of 140 women survivors of torture and other forms of gender-based violence from Indonesia, Timor-Leste and Myanmar. Together with a handbook on participatory research, the two publications provide a long-awaited innovation. The book present a new approach and new knowledge about how women experience impunity in conflict and post-conflict settings in Southeast Asia. Through the stories of survivors, we see the vicious relationship between violence and poverty. To counter this spiral of victimization, the handbook offers a collection of activities to "unlearn" the practices together with survivors, that nurture impunity.